Krista Lever Counseling

Get to know the different parts of yourself & explore what shapes your inner world

Many of my clients grew up feeling misunderstood or emotionally unsupported— learning early how to stay quiet, perform, manage others’ needs, or push through discomfort to keep connection intact. Those strategies once helped you survive, but over time, they can leave you anxious, disconnected from yourself, or stuck in painful relational patterns. Therapy can help you make meaning of your story and build the life you want.

Curiosity

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Compassion

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Connection

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Life doesn’t have to be this hard

Neuroaffirming therapy for those who are exhausted from masking, overthinking, and having to hold it all together

Services

  • A complimentary consultation offers a low-pressure way to see if working together feels like a good fit. We will briefly talk about what brings you to therapy, what you are hoping for, and any questions you may have about me or my approach. There’s no need to have everything figured out, this is just a quick chat to get to know one another.

  • In individual therapy, our work may include exploring long-standing patterns like perfectionism, masking, people-pleasing, anger, or self-criticism, and connecting these patterns to early life experiences and attachment dynamics. Sessions are paced with your nervous system in mind and may focus on insight, emotional processing, or skill building. Sessions are tailored to your unique needs and goals for therapy.

    55 minute session $90

    85 minute session $120

  • Couples therapy offers a collaborative space to slow down and understand the patterns that show up between you and your partner. Our work will include exploring attachment needs, nervous system responses, and communication differences– with the goal of building emotional awareness, connection, and shared meaning.

    55 minute session $90

    85 minute session $120

Who I Help

  • Many women come to therapy feeling competent yet chronically depleted. You may be highly attuned to others, constantly adjusting, questioning yourself, over-preparing, people-pleasing, or minimizing your needs to avoid being seen as difficult, emotional, or too much

    Therapy becomes a place to soften the inner pressure, understand how you work, and build a life that includes your needs, not as an afterthought, but as something that truly matters.

  • Men often grow up learning the same quiet rules: keep it together, don’t need too much, and deal with things on your own. Maybe you’ve spent years adjusting yourself to fit expectations, without ever feeling fully at ease. A lot of men adapt by pushing through, staying logical, or keeping emotions tightly controlled. Others learn to mask by hiding confusion, suppressing reactions, or forcing confidence to avoid standing out. Over time, these strategies can lead to burnout, irritability, emotional numbness, or a sense of disconnection from yourself or the people you care about.

    Therapy offers a space where you can learn to understand your patterns, reduce stress and anxiety, and reconnect with parts of yourself that may get sidelined just to make it through the day.

  • Today’s teens are under a lot of pressure. You might feel misunderstood, overwhelmed, or constantly compared to others. School, friendships, family expectations, and social rules can feel confusing or exhausting. Some teens cope by shutting down. Others push themselves relentlessly, trying to seem “normal” or stay out of trouble. Masking often starts early and may show up as hiding stress, forcing yourself to socialize, pretending things don’t bother you, or being hard on yourself. Over time, this can turn into anxiety, burnout, emotional outbursts, or feeling disconnected from who you really are.

    Therapy isn’t about fixing you or making you act a certain way. It is a place where you’re taken seriously, where your experiences make sense, and where you can learn ways to handle stress, emotions, and relationships without feeling constantly overwhelmed.

  • You care deeply about your partner, yet feel stuck in the same arguments, shutdowns, or emotional distance. Conversations turn into conflict. One of you feels unseen, the other feels criticized. Over time, it can start to feel lonely—even while together.

    Therapy is a space to slow down and understand what’s really happening underneath. Rather than blaming or fixing each other, we focus on building emotional safety, clearer communication, and deeper understanding. I help couples make sense of their patterns, repair ruptures, and learn how to reach for each other in ways that feel more attuned and supportive.

    The goal isn’t a perfect relationship; it’s one where both partners feel seen, respected, and emotionally held. A relationship that feels like a place of connection, not constant effort.

Feeling more like roommates than partners?

Emotional distance often isn’t a lack of love, it’s a sign that the connection started to feel unsafe, exhausting, or unclear.

Couples therapy can help you find your way back to each other.

“Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.

We may want to love other people without holding back, to feel authentic, to breathe in the beauty around us, to dance and sing.

Yet each day we listen to inner voices that keep our life small.”

-Tara Brach, Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha

Contact

krista@kristalevercounseling.com

803.702.0017

Location

Laurel Street

Downtown Columbia, SC

Hours

Weekdays

By Appointment Only